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"If you are longing for adventure,” the author says, "this is the guidebook that allows people to start right now.” It may not be easy for certain people such as retirees and widows and widowers, but the author says that adventures are out there — sometimes you just have to meet them halfway. "Volunteering is a great way to meet people,” he advises. "When people do what they love, they attract great friends and create a community where it wouldn’t have occurred. "Learn the things you’ve always wanted to learn,” he continues. That could be signing up for a yoga class, rediscovering religion, seeing a great foreign film, going to the library one night a week, joining a club, cooking a new dish, or going to a support group for widows and widowers. The author says that once people read his book, their lives will change. "If they do one adventure a day,” he adds, "their lives will be more adventurous.” Even if you’re shy, he adds, adventures are waiting for you. "When people get in touch with their passions, something wonderful is possible.” Silberkleit joined a book group at his local library and noticed a shy man in his midst. He started a conversation and asked the man what he liked. "Comic books,” was the man’s reply. Since the author knew so much about them, they struck up a long conversation and a friendship was made. Silberkleit was born in New Rochelle, N.Y., but grew up in Scarsdale. A man of many interests, he has been a hospice volunteer in Stamford for the past year. "When I signed up to be a hospice volunteer, I wanted to learn more about death,” he says. "But hospice patients have taught me about adventures in life.” Silberkleit, who is divorced, also flies twin engine airplanes for Airlifeline, a volunteer organization that helps patients and families travel to receive medical treatment. The rest of his creative energy is harnessed into conducting adventure workshops and adventure camps — he will be taking small groups to a writer’s camp on Martha’s Vineyard, a glassblowing retreat in Williamsburg, MA, and a nature trip to Iceland this year. "I have the freedom now to create what I love,” Silberkleit admits, "and to create the things that I’d like to share with other people.” David Silberkleit will be at Borders in Danbury for a booksigning on Thursday, May 1, at 7:30 p.m. To get a free weekly adventure e-mail and for more information, visit Silberkleit’s Web site at www.everydayadventure.com. To contact David Silberkleit, e-mail him at david@empowercoach.com
Six Everyday Adventures for Troubling Times: 1. Home. Work on your nest. Stop dreaming of your perfect decor; create it now, within the confines of your current abode. Make your home adventurous by playing with your space until it makes you smile. 2. Relationships. Ask for what you want and need. Share more secrets. Tell more people you love them. Take your old friends someplace new. 3. Body. Try a yoga class, go for a bike ride, try water aerobics, learn to fence. Join a racquetball league at the gym, or sign up for a competitive event and train with a friend. Even put music on in your living room and dance. 4. Career. Learn something new each day about your business and about your co-workers. 5. Money. If you are compulsively saving for the future, spend some money today and enjoy the fruits of all your hard work. 6. Nature. Spend an hour each day outside, exploring your neighborhood. Learn to identify the trees on your property and the birds in your yard. Notice the clouds; study your local geology. Bring shells or pebbles or pinecones inside, to showcase local natural art. Nature is right outside your window.
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